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299th post

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Apr 142011
 

I’ve been doing this blog thing a little while now.

For my 100th post and my first anniversary post, I tried to think of something Important to say. This time I just wordled my blog to let it speak for itself:

I love that it seems to read: “Women know sexual people just like sex.”

It also happens to be my birthday today – I’m 34 now – though I can’t top last year’s birthday post.

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sex nerd sex tips

  • 01. map your partner’s stress
  • 02. Map your partner’s turn ons.
  • 03. context, context, context
  • 04. Light touch, deep touch, temperature
  • 05. speed, rhythm
  • 06. earlobes
  • 07. ears, too
  • 08. outer corner of the lips
  • 09. their scalp
  • 10. eyelashes – yours
  • 11. nose.
  • 12. where to fuck: armpits
  • 13. where to fuck: the knee
  • 14. where to fuck: feet
  • 15. where to fuck: intergluteal
  • 16. whisper
  • 17. the back, hands free
  • 18. their back, your tongue
  • 19. hair displacement
  • 20. alternating sensations
  • 21. anal: external stimulation
  • 22. anal: more external
  • 23. external anal-oral
  • 24. anal external: pressure
  • 25. anal penetration
  • 26. anal penetration: stillness
  • 27. anal penetration: the monkey sphincter
  • 28. anal penetration: Crisco
  • 29. anal sex: better pooping = better sex
  • 30. anal penetration: double
  • 31. random setting
  • 32. the vaginal opening
  • 33. the cervix
  • 34. what the vagina feels
  • 35. put your fingers in a vagina
  • 36. Put your hand in a vagina
  • 37. light touch taint
  • 38. deep touch taint
  • 39. shout
  • 40. silent
  • 41. backs of the knees
  • 42. how to use a feather or a tongue
  • 43. skin stretch
  • 44. chemoreception for everyone
  • 45. chemoreception for YOU
  • 46. turn off nociception (part 1)
  • 47. turn off nociception (part 2)
  • 48. turn off nocicpetion (part 3)
  • 49. turn off nociception (part 4)
  • 50. tiny points of sensation
  • 51. what smells mean

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