Category Archives: kink

thy rod and thy staff

Posted on 04/19/2011 by

It’ll tell you something about how my life is going lately when I tell you that on Friday my computer broke and then I went to a memorial service for someone almost young enough to be my daughter, almost. It’s … Continue reading →

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too rough, too rude, too boist’rous

Posted on 12/01/2010 by

It’s the kink lecture today. Students have informed me that they’ve been anticipating it all semester. Well of course no lecture can stand up too extravagant expectations, but I’ve done my best, including creating a visually interesting PPT presentation. All … Continue reading →

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i like the sticky

Posted on 08/20/2010 by

This is a less sciencey, more airy fairypost. My sister would call it “fruity.” Touchy feely. Because I had a rough night. See, I like the sticky – I mean, the sticky aspects of being human and having sex. It’s … Continue reading →

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excellent torture

Posted on 06/16/2010 by

I’ve been pretty heavy on the nerd lately, and not paying as much attention to the sex. Let’s fix that. How to maximize your torment of your partner. Haven’t you wanted to be in that position of power where you … Continue reading →

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the experience versus the memory

Posted on 04/15/2010 by

Nobel prize winner and psychologist extraordinaire Daniel Kahmeman talks about the distinction between the experiencing self versus the remembering self in the context of happiness – happy in your life (experience) versus happy about your life (remembering). Of course I’m … Continue reading →

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