Category Archives: men

behold, thou art fair

Posted on 02/01/2012 by

I spent most of the day home in bed with a norovirus that’s been making the rounds. (I used to be a person who never got ANYTHING. Where did that go? How did I become the person who gets EVERYTHING?) … Continue reading →

Posted in emily, media, men | 21 Comments

how often you think about sex… or food or sleep

Posted on 12/08/2011 by

A neat blog post from Brian Mustanski over at Psychology Today, about a study on frequency of thoughts about sex. It’s a neat study that asked participants to press a clicker each time they thought about either food, sex, or … Continue reading →

Posted in gender, media, men, sciencey goodness | 3 Comments

a fishing show as the sexiest thing on television

Posted on 07/07/2011 by

You can tell I’m on vacation by all the mainstream media I’m consuming. Next up: River Monsters. It might be the sexiest show on television, and no I am not being sarcastic. My sister introduced me to it maybe a … Continue reading →

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confidence

Posted on 06/19/2011 by

I have had a totally INTENSE past few days. On Thursday I did a talk on positive sexuality that resulted in a half dozen women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, discussing places to find women-friendly porn and erotica. Totally … Continue reading →

Posted in dysfunction, emily, media, men, oral sex | 5 Comments

are doods… really… this… ?

Posted on 04/12/2011 by

In the comments related to my last post, Ian said: …if a woman took sex off the table up front, as you [Emily] are advocating, my interest in cultivating her as a friend usually diminished dramatically afterwards. I think that … Continue reading →

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