Category Archives: oral sex

confidence

I have had a totally INTENSE past few days. On Thursday I did a talk on positive sexuality that resulted in a half dozen women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, discussing places to find women-friendly porn and erotica. Totally … Continue reading

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make a penis happy

Enough with the political blah blah blah, eh? How about some straight up Sex Advice for Having Better Sex? Here’s one for the folks who have sex with people who have penises. It’s one that I always think everyone knows … Continue reading

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excellent torture

I’ve been pretty heavy on the nerd lately, and not paying as much attention to the sex. Let’s fix that. How to maximize your torment of your partner. Haven’t you wanted to be in that position of power where you … Continue reading

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a burst of shameless self-promotion

Hey folks, I’m excited to be able to say that The Good in Bed Guide to Orally Pleasuring a Man is available in PDF and formats compatible with iPad, iPhone, Android, Blackberry, etc as well as Kindle. And it’s only … Continue reading

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what women want (12): leave that clit alone

Women want… … well, some of them want you to leave their clitorises WELL ALONE. Have I mentioned lately that WOMEN VARY? One of the ways that women vary is in the directness of clitoral stimulation that they enjoy/can tolerate. … Continue reading

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