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emily’s lessons about trauma, not from a book

I’ve been really fascinated to read other people’s experience with IUDs – both good and bad. It seems like there is a great deal of variability in women’s experiences and also in the approaches that different medical providers take to … Continue reading

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To participate more than I consume

Hey there folks, I took the long holiday weekend to work intensively on this relationship guide I’m writing (nearly finished!), and let the blog linger a little. But we’re back! I keep thinking about the beauty and blogging thing, and … Continue reading

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vulva cupcakes (not safe for most people’s work)

Andrew and Sabrina sent me this photo, described as “vagina cupcakes,” (not by A&S) on twitter: And my reaction was, “These are beautiful!” They are! They’re anatomically correct and exhibit lovely diversity, including diversity of menstrual phase. I could only … Continue reading

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sex and the apocalypse

My entire city and pretty much the entire rest of the county (and much of the state and indeed the region) has no power, thanks to the glories of global warming and the weight of snow collecting on not-yet-fallen leaves. … Continue reading

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belly theories

I wanted to add to yesterday’s post that I have a pet theory about why this silly and biologically untenable “flat belly” has become such a vogue. Well I have two theories, actually. The first, less sexually interesting theory, is … Continue reading

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