If you’ve read Come as You Are – or even if you haven’t! – you may want copies of the worksheets to give to partners, friends, students, whoever. Here are PDFs of them!

Here are the Come You Are Worksheets as they appear in the book (these are the ones that go with the audiobook, too)


Or download individual worksheets:

From Chapter 2 – the Sexual Temperament Questionnaire

From Chapter 3 – the Sexy Contexts Worksheets and the Sexual Cues Assessment

From Chapter 4 – the Stress Worksheet

From Chapter 7 – the Turning Off the Offs Worksheet


AASECT 2015 Powerpoint slides from my presentation “In the Middle… Of the Brain.” (Downloads from Dropbox)